Other than for the pandemic we meet at least weekly for tea - and culture.
This knot was actually developed and taught for the first time by Louisa Laroche for San Francisco Immodestea Club's Thursday Shibari and Tea! It is a simple stopper knot at the the top of a cat’s paw. This creates a safe and quick column tie which will not tighten down and constrict the wrists.
With regards sexual acts there is only one form of consent acceptable - affirmative consent. People talk about enthusiasm, which is somewhat ambiguous, but there is absolutely no ambiguity in affirmative consent.